Fall in love with yourself. Even if it seems impossible, I assure you that it’s not. At some point, my mindset shifted from being insecure and not loving myself to falling in love with who I am. I’ve learned to own up to mistakes, successes, and feelings (good or bad). We all have strengths, weaknesses, and little quirks. Those attributes that allow some people to love us and others who can’t stand us. Although you’re awakening, you understand everything is a reflection of our inner beliefs and assumptions.
However, if you struggle with the concept that everything is reflected in us, I get it. I was there myself once. So, start with yourself! Work on embracing all aspects of who you are. If you don’t like something, then work on changing it. Don’t be afraid to acknowledge the good, the bad, and everything in between.
So, what happens when we fall in love with ourselves? Well, setting goals and finding life balance is easier. At least, that has been my experience. I remember times when I either focused all my time on work. Or, when I was anxious and depressed, I’d go through cycles of wasting days lying in bed or on the couch watching tv. I was either very productive or not productive at all. Now, I have a clear vision, and I make sure to keep a healthy balance. However, I do have a couple of things I still want to incorporate into my life.
I want to encourage you to fall in love with yourself. Change your conception of yourself, and your outer world will reflect that change. Don’t worry about what others think because they are only a reflection of your inner thoughts. Focus on yourself first. You'll be happier, and finding life balance will be easier.