Get Your shit Together! I don’t remember the exact date I wrote this post on Facebook, but I meant every word. This was the post:
Ladies! We need to have our shit together! Bombarded at a young age, we are told we must be a certain way. Whether that’s looking a certain way, or we aren't good enough. Plus, we aren’t always given the tools we need to grow with confidence. Therefore, insecurities take shape. Learn to love yourself.
As women, we need to have our emotions in check, have our own goals, and our finances in order. We need to be confident in who we are, embrace our flaws, and our beauty. It’s important to know what we want...then go after it! The less we focus on what others are doing or expect from us, the more we allow. What belongs in our lives will flow into it.
No One to Blame
I didn’t realize at the time of the post but there is no one to blame but ourselves for our circumstances. Everything and I mean absolutely everything we experience in our external world is a result of what we think, feel, believe, imagine, assume, and how we react.
I wouldn’t say it unless I could honestly reflect on my life and experiences and be able to put two and two together. Do not focus on what others are doing. Don’t focus on anyone else to make you happy or give you what you want and need in this life. Just get your shit together.
Change Your Circumstances
Imagine exactly what you want and the person you want to be. The key is persistence. There were so many times I gave up but I’m here to tell you to persist. Once you know what you want and can persist in that then your life will start to unfold in a new way.
I don’t blame anyone for the sexual abuse I endured. I don’t blame anyone for causing the anxiety and depression I endured. Nor do I blame anyone for the insecurities that held me back from living a more fulfilling life. I am responsible for my life and what I experience. You can change your circumstances based on what you think, feel, believe, imagine, assume and how you react to life. It is your creation.